Dec 31 2009
Motivations and Resolutions
This being New Year’s eve, many people are putting the finishing touches on their resolutions for the coming year. If past performance is any indication of future performance then it is safe to say that most of the resolutions made tonight will be lucky to last more than a couple of weeks into the new year. When I stopped to consider this it seemed to me that a part of the problem, by far the largest part of the problem, with being able to keep the well intentioned promises to ourselves is that we make them thinking that we have the power to carry them out.
“… apart from Me you can do nothing.” John 15:5. or better yet; the example given in James 4:13-16, “Now listen, you who say, ‘Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money.’ Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. Instead, you ought to say, ‘If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that.’” When we make grand claims that, “We,” will stop smoking, or lose weight or stick to an exercise regime or whatever it may be, we are leaving God out of the mix! What fools we are, we can not even open our eyes in the morning except that God wills it for us.
I used to smoke. I started sneak-smoking at 10 years old because it was cool, (according to my friends), and I finally was free from tobacco at the age of 50. There’s a literal 40 years in the desert for ya! I had become an expert on quitting though, I did it all the time, maybe even three times a week, but it never worked. How did I finally manage to kick it? I started on my knees and stayed on my knees, and God did the rest. I finally came to Him truly broken and begging for His grace, and He was there to answer me. No withdrawal, no weight gain, no cravings, no back sliding - when God does something, it’s DONE! I didn’t even pretend that I had anything to do with it, I know where my willpower ends; this was a supernatural happening.
The first point then is that we truly can not do anything on our own, it is only by the will of God that anything occurs in our lives. So the very best place to begin is in prayer, but with a broken spirit and a contrite heart. “The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise.” Psalm 51:17 This is a promise made by God and God can not lie. Even so, this does not necessarily mean that God will always give us what we ask of Him, we must learn to ask, “in His will.” It is to God’s glory that we should receive His blessings, but often times we do not know what to ask for. The things that we think would be best for us are usually not the things that God sees as best for us.
Most people have, at some point, asked God to let them hit the lottery. “Why, if I had all that money I would be able to tell the world how greatly God blessed me and He would receive the glory for it.” But it doesn’t work that way. To ask for the heart that is better able to withstand the trials ahead gives a better witness of the grace of God in one’s life than does a vacation house in the Bahamas. We need to really examine our motives in order to develop effective prayer lives. God knows what we need and what will best serve His purposes for us, we don’t. Satan has polluted our minds with such misshapen images of what we think we should want, that even if we were to get them, we would be far more miserable than before we asked!
For quite some time now I have been asking God to supply the need of a dear friend who is extremely sick. But I have stopped asking that. Instead, I ask that my friend may receive the strength to endure, the faith to persevere, and the witness to honor Jesus Christ through his ordeal. You see, I have no way of knowing whether or not the complete healing of this friend is the best use of his life in the eyes of God. God may have an entirely different plan and the little part that I am allowed to see may be completely in error. What I think of as a great outcome may be insignificant in the grander plans of God.
I would love to have each of you reading this to commit to showing these articles to one other person each month for the coming year. That’s only 12 people during the course of the year who currently are not receiving any benefit from the words I write, but that might find a pearl of truth that they would have otherwise missed; but what’s my motive? There is the altruistic ambition of reaching people with the Word of God, to better the kingdom and there’s the less honorable ambition that more readership will prompt more hits on the ad links which put a couple of pennies in my pocket, or perhaps even a couple of direct donations. Then there’s the wildly insane hope that I could grow readership and donations to the point where I could devote myself full-time to writing and come off the road and stay home. After all, surely God doesn’t want me to be apart from my wife all the time, right?
So what’s my hearts motive, I am thankful for the Holy Spirit living in me because honestly, I have a hard time sorting out my own motives sometimes. What about you? Are you wanting to lose weight so you look hot at the beach this summer, which may bring you more opportunities to succumb to fleshly lusts, or are you simply trying to get healthy enough to go on a mission trip? Do you want to stop smoking because in so doing you are honoring God with your body, or is it merely that the expense of the habit is draining your wallet? Are you praying for what you believe God wants to do through you or are you charting your own course and asking God to meet you there?
John 15:8 says, “This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be My disciples.” What fruit are we asking God to allow us to bear? The Bible tells us to bring all our petitions before the Lord in prayer but we can not think that after rattling off a laundry list of desires we can simply throw an, “… in Jesus’ name Amen,” after it and expect to get everything we think we want. I would pray that every reader that sees these words might, (you might), really search their hearts and see if they are praying in the will of God; then commit to changing their prayer lives so that they are.
I began writing because I was discouraged by the number of people that play church, that toy with theology, there are so many that only care about their souls one day a week, for a couple of hours at most, and barely even that. It is not much different in our prayer lives, it’s too easy to go through the motions and never really offer an acceptable prayer. If we find ourselves feeling like our prayers are bouncing off the ceiling, maybe they are! A lot of people are under the mistaken opinion that God wants us to all be happy, He does not, He wants us to be HOLY. This is the pilgrims path, the road to holiness, how do we get there? Together.
Make those resolutions but be sure to start with God. Let’s bring all our requests and petitions to the cross and pray over them, that the result of our every day, might better magnify the Lord. Let’s examine the heart of our prayers so that we are asking for the best outcome in the eyes of God. Let’s start asking that our lives display the kinds of things that result in behaviors which are…
All for the Glory of Christ