Aug 26 2009
Whatever We Wish
In John 15, Jesus tells us that as long as we remain in unity with Him, that we may, “…ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you.” Now some people would like to take this verse and bend it to mean that we have carte-blanch to absolutely anything we could dream of, but it’s not true. “But wait a minute! The Bible tells us that the reason we don’t receive is because we don’t ask, but even when we do ask, there are many times when we don’t get what we are asking for, in fact sometimes we get just the opposite!” Since the Father never does anything contrary to His will, it can only mean that, “IF,” it’s glorifying to Christ, and, “IF,” it is within His will, then He will not withhold from us anything we ask. But what do we ask for? What should we be asking for?
We are commanded to love our neighbors as ourselves, that’s a good start. But that’s mainly an internal mechanism. In Matthew 28:19, we are told to, “…go and make disciples of all nations…” God’s will for our lives is to make disciples! Is this what we pray for when we are before the throne? I’m sure that many of us have prayed that a loved one would hear the call of God and be saved by a transforming faith in Christ Jesus, perhaps some of us have even seen that prayer answered. When we are blessed enough to see one of the lost come to the cross in repentance, receive the gift of God’s grace in salvation; that’s a good day! But are we willing to be the ones that stick our necks out to try to help bring someone to Christ? Even within our own families this can be a tricky maneuver, we risk alienating the people closest to us, but these are the very same people that we should want to see saved more than anyone, simply because they are the ones closest to us.
From this perspective, our prayer should be that God grants us the power to lead. We need not be the best speakers or orators of sound doctrine, Moses himself, proclaimed to be slow of speech, but God willed that he should be His chosen tool to deliver Israel out of Egypt. All we need do is tell our stories to people explaining that we used to struggle with these-or-those life issues, then we came to know Christ and now we see those things differently and they are no longer the huge burdens that we used to think they were. We are to sow seed! If God has willed that the person to whom we are talking should have ears to hear, then they will.
The story I had heard was this: A circuit preacher delivered the message with great conviction one day, and years later, when re-visiting that church, a woman came up and thanked him for leading her to the cross and introducing her to Jesus. He asked her, “When you get to Heaven, will you come find me, take my hand, walk with me to Jesus and tell Him what you just told me?” Will we have anyone in Heaven to take our hands and tell Jesus that they are there because we set them the example? Because we shared a testimony with them? Because we walked them to the cross?
Usually we waste our time praying for things that God won’t give us. He knows that if He let us hit the lottery that it would draw us farther away from Him and that is not what His will is for us. He wants us closer to him. He could take a particular pain away from us but He would rather use it to see if we won’t come closer to Him instead. We need to understand that oftentimes when we ask for one thing, the only way to give us the thing we ask for is to put us through the very thing that we are hoping to avoid! We want patience; He sends trials. Sometimes the thing that we think we want is only produced by enduring that same thing. If a person wants desperately to beat a chocolate addiction, He may give them a job in a candy factory!
There was a time when I was sure that I never wanted children. It was a long time ago, and I’ve grown and changed since then, but back then I knew that I never wanted children of my own. God’s will for me was that I learn the lessons that can only be learned by having a child in the house and WHAM… I was a parent. It amazed even me, that I went from a person who didn’t want to be bothered with rug-rats to a grown man, on all fours, trying to teach an infant to crawl, (something that I wished hadn’t happened almost as soon as he was able to do it, by the way!). I was transformed from someone who was interested in cars and motorcycles to someone who became enthralled with making wooden toys and child-sized furniture in the garage at Christmas!
We are too easily distracted by asking for the things that we think will do us the most good from our limited human perspectives instead of asking for the things of eternal value. We know the Bible’s direction to store up for ourselves treasure in Heaven, but we still ask for the things that we count as treasure here on earth. The things we pray for must be within the will of God if we are to expect that He will give them to us. The country singer, Garth Brooks, has a song with the line, “Sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers.” Well, I believe that God answers every single prayer so I would say that I thank God for saying no, to a bunch of mine.
When the Bible tells us that we receive not because we ask not, we need to realize that God’s will is implicit in that. It is telling us that we do not receive God’s will, because we don’t ask for God’s will. The text in John 15 goes on to say that, “This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit…” What is our fruit? God’s will displayed in our lives! What is God’s will displayed in our lives? Disciples! If God, through us, convicts others and they become Christ’s disciples than God is glorified and that is the best possible fruit we could hope to display; that is the will of God in our lives.
We do not need to be seminary theologians, or Bible college graduates to be effective tools in the hands of God. God has shown, time and time again, that He chooses the weak to confound the strong; the simple to confound the wise. God will use the most unlikely of people to perform the greatest of His accomplishments. It is because of this, that the world can see that there must be more at work than whatever appears to be on the surface. Who was Gideon that God should have chosen him? Gideon told the Lord, “how can I save Israel? My clan is the weakest in Manasseh, and I am the least in my family?” Gideon was the least likely tool that God could have picked to defeat the Midianites, and His answer to Gideon? “I will be with you.”
When God grows a new disciple He ensures that the soil is nourishing enough to supply the seed, He sends the rain to water the seed, He causes the seed to sprout and grow by His own power. All we need to do is drop the seed. God will do all the rest. Christian, think of your own conversion. If you look over the events that brought you to accept Jesus you will undoubtedly see God working throughout the entire process. There was only a very small part that someone else did to bring you to the point of conversion, and it could be argued that even that, was really God working through that particular someone.
If we want our lives to be glorifying to God then we need to be bearing much fruit. I can think of no better way to bear good fruit than by learning to pray in God’s will. If we do this, then we can expect to see a dramatic increase in the fulfillment of our prayer requests. By understanding that we rarely see God’s best for ourselves, we can begin to understand that there are good reasons that God does not give us the silly things we ask for. We could pray for world peace but how can God’s Word be fulfilled unless there are wars and rumors of wars? This is a fallen world and it is not yet the time for the world to rest in peace. He can not give us things that violate His will, or His Word. His will is that we make disciples. In the making of the disciples, we are doing little more than showing how the will of God is focused on the things which are always…
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